Go Goa.... Part 1

After a couple of postings and a lot of drafts, here I am, back with a bang. I think there are few things for which you don't have to write and delete and write again. Words and thoughts come automatically. Writing about my trip to Goa is definitely one of those.

Wow man, where to start from... Just the beginning of a new year, with all the new year resolutions already down the drain, I was desperately looking for a change...

It was the end of 2009 when I came back from Jak.. Yet another grueling trip with a lot of work and timelines almost impossible to meet. Only consolation, that I was with my family and friends to celebrate the new year. This is when I first got to know from one of my close buddies, Nigga, about this Goa trip. The trip was well timed to leverage the holiday on 26th Jan which happened to be on Tuesday. So most of us took off on Monday and some like me were on WFH :). To be honest, I was not very excited the first time I heard about it.. Now how hard I may try to reason it, I don't know why I was reluctant to say yes at that time. Probably this is how I am..

I must say that had it not been due to constant bugging by Nigga, I would have not gone for this trip. Once I made my mind to go for it, the next logical step was to check who all were coming for this trip. Well it was refreshing to hear that it is going to be a different set of people all together.. In a group of 7, I knew 5(including me :-)) from my college days. Other two were strangers. But I have heard on and off about both of them from Nigga.

This trip was coordinated almost completely by Nigga. From hotel reservation in Goa to purchase of tickets for some of the travelers, everything done by him and quite efficiently I must say.. So before I proceed, let me introduce to you the whole gang.. As I told you we were 7 in all. you already know me, or if you don't then its not required.. I will name myself Yogi for this post.

Starting from Nigga, well he is one of my close buddies whom i know for almost 10 yrs now.. Haven't seen anyone like him in my whole life. He always has a different point of view to everything along with a very logical reasoning to back his PoV. He started his journey from Mumbai and was closest to Goa in terms of distance.

Next is Paapi.. yeah he actually lived up to his name through out the trip. Just kidding, but I am sure Nigga will second, third and fourth me on this statement. More on this later :) He started from Delhi for this trip. Though we have graduated in the same year from the same college, but we really got to know each other during our trip to Nainital in the year 2007.

Next is Monchi.. Again from my college and we both knew each other since our college days. Well not the nappy buddies but certainly good friends.. Monchi was the only person who had been to Goa before, in fact twice. This was his third trip and he also came from Delhi. His prior experience was certainly a big add-on.

Emo.. I have heard about her on few occasions from Nigga, but not sure if I was known to her. She came to Goa from Bangalore. Well nothing much that I knew about her at start of the trip except for the fact that she had learnt some fresh abuses :):).. Was not sure if it was in preparation for this trip ;).. jokes apart but she came across as a very nice person.. more on Emo in coming sections...

Sane.. Again someone I had never met or interacted before.. Another of Nigga's friends coming from Bangalore. A nice fun loving person.. The only one in our group who can swim :). As expected both Emo and Sane were coming together from Bangalore. More on her in coming sections...

Last but not the least our very own Rathi.. Another one from my college, knew him since then but just casual chit chats. Got to know him better in this trip and it was a great experience.. Poor chap, he was teased a lot for his engaged status and his every action was scrutinized and ultimately linked to her fiancee :) :).. Travelling from Delhi, he and Monchi were the last ones to join us in Goa..

And of course, I started my journey from Hyderabad, but there was a twist here.. more on this later..

Well enough for the introductions.. I will conclude this part here.. Next part will have everyone's story of reaching Goa.. Believe me it was incredible how we all somehow managed to reach there just in time to make the most of our trip...

So till the next post, happy reading and enjoy!!!

Cheers
Yogi

Monday Blues

Its Monday. The first Monday, first working working day of the year 2010. Can't get worse, coming back to work after a good one week vacation.. Oh boy, I never thought it would be this difficult. All new year resolutions which were already postponed to be effective from 1st working day, as if exercising and jogging are prohibited on weekends, are going down the drain..

But as they say in Hindi..

Ki umeed per toh duniya kayam hai

I will keep my hopes alive. After all transition takes sometime, so I will be modest with my demands and start working on my new year resolutions from 2nd week onwards :-)

Let It Go!!!

Dont think about it, it will be all fine, Just Let it go.. Let it go, a phrase of 3 simple words, easy to tell and advice but extremely painful to go through. How to let it go? Get over it? Why cant we have a selective memory? Just a 30 minutes visit to a psychiatrist and you are done.. But unfortunately thats not to be.. At this moment I recollect a couple of lines from one of Jagjit Singh's very popular ghazals.

Tere Bare main Jab Socha nahin tha..
Main Tanha tha magar itna nahin tha...

The more you try to forget it, the more you will remember it, the more it haunts you. So, what to do? Learn to live with it? Well, not such a good idea, tried it myself with little success. You can also try what Sir Newton mastered in, Time and Distance. You may end up writing few crazy equations like him, but would not be able to get over it..

Why not go to the root, if possible? Talk through it. Why is it such a big thing in your life.. Try and make it a matter of less concern. How do you do that? Talk through it. Be it your dearest friend, your parents, your ex girl friend, you colleague or your boss, just go ahead and talk. Go back in time, to that instant when it happened.. Tell him how you felt, Ask him why he did so? Pour your heart, listen what he has to say... Most of the times it will better the situation, sometimes it may not.. but you will always better, satisfied and relieved...

What worse can happen to where you are right now in that relationship. Only one of the two things will happen. Either it will move towards betterment or it will become easier for you to snap those last few threads that have been dragging it till now. Believe me, the second one may sound disturbing but just give it a thought, after all its not that bad an option. You are not able to let it go because you still have some feelings for that relationship. Would you still feel that bad when you realize that it was never worth the effort you have put in?

Believe me, life is short, it is not worth wasting your present for something that has happened in your past..

So just enjoy your present and cherish the good memories of your past and your future will definitely be wonderful...